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2026! Wow! A time to look ahead, a year ended! And here we are! It’s with somberness I think of the past year. With all that has and continues to happen in the world, how can it feel different. This goes far beyond somber! Such events change the world. forever Can those change become lasting changes for the good of all? Can people learn to communicate effectively? Can we discover differences are not so great from one another’s points of view? I am thinking of how we feel about the basics of living life. What home means, what safety means, what it means to take care of the heart and soul of we humans. Is there abundance, which does not mean having riches but have what you need instead.

How to evolve into something more encompassing and compassionate toward all. That there is love and laughter in the world.

The hardest things to move past are what deeply hurts and anger us. Because it is hard to find balance if self-talk comes from these two points of emotional feelings. When angry we want clarification, the return to stability, we want others to remember who we are after years of building on that base. What we say or do of what is good feels lost and it hurts that it feels forgotten. Anger is in the moment and does not consider such things. Time is needed for a clearer resolution. Time is something we all lack. Wisdom, applying the inner wisdom then means getting to it. Understanding that as humans we respond to what others say and do. Not always in the best ways. Because emotions are involved. The thoughts we have rattling around in the head that led in all kinds of directions. Thought like the word game take you all over the place. In such moments you’re not thinking about being human and how you’re responding. A counselor told me once about good and bad anger. Good anger is when you tell of your feelings, and bad anger is when you make it precious and don’t let go of it. Basically, say what you must and move past those feelings. The thing to remember is the time it takes to move past is not a convenient thing! It doesn’t happen quickly. The frustration continues, and the mind which wants peace…. needs to find that balance again. If things have been mounding for a long time, what erupts is more complex. Belief and assumptions. When it is really guessing about one another in most cases. We lack time to communicate. If one can its what is the most important thing to say? We then prioritize. What’s most important and so things are left out. If not fully conveyed, then half or some things are begun and never seem to get finished.

What is good for one is good for another. What is true for one is also true for another. Doesn’t matter how it’s said. If we feel as we do, so others feel as they do, and similarly as we feel. We seem to forget this or ignore this, especially when ager comes up. It’s the hurt we believe, and we feel portrayed as less than we are. Sentences don’t make sense when you feel under attack as its not who you feel you are. This said people do some crappy stupid things at times. Their self-talk got them there to the point of saying what they do.

At such times its boundary setting that gives one space. Time to come to conclusions, and to have the letting go process of conclusion making. If what you say does not immediately affect change the other person is not willing t hear you. Isn’t able to take in your own reality. It often leads to the silent treatment. A limbo land you don’t have to stay in. The silent treatment is another’s way to punish you. for what they feel is the wrong you have done. Instead of resolving the issue they maintain their emotional self. It gets complex because of why they are feeling as they do Stressful events lead to being overwhelmed. And so there they are responding, and there you are receiving what turns into regrets or keeps what becomes a sore open. All one can do is move on and let time pass.

Thou, On a happier note! Its Christmas and a time for family and friends! It’s a new year and another go at living life!